Experimentation is one secret to better $ex. While some couples may still prefer the traditional vaginal $ex, many aren’t shying away from taking the anal $ex route for their share of pleasure. Whatever you choose, it’s better you keep it wet ‘n’ wild!
Didn’t get it, folks? We’re talking about using a lubricant, which was once duly touted as the “unsung hero” of $exual wellness by popular $ex positive content creator Leeza Mangaldas.
A naturally lubricated vagina is a win-win! Fluid arising out of the cervix and extra secretions from the Bartholin glands when a woman is aroused, lead to this lubrication which helps to reduce friction during $ex. However, it’s not remotely the same when it comes to anal $ex.
Why is lubricant important during anal $ex
Anal $ex is typically defined as $ex with penetration in the anus, instead of the vagina.
In a recent Instagram post, Dr Niveditha Manokaran, a $exual Health physician known by the moniker @dr_nive_untaboos, touched upon the importance of lubricants especially during anal $ex.
“Use plenty of lubricants during anal $ex, since the anus does not self lubricate like the vagina,” she suggested in a post, which addressed certain facts about anal $ex which is agnostic to gender and $exual preference.
Various studies have raised a concern about use of lubricants during anal $ex as it may increase risk of $exually Transmitted Infections (STIs). Anal $ex itself has been deemed a “highly efficient mode of HIV transmission” on the basis of studies. That apart, cultural taboos surrounding this intercourse style as well as the perception around its lack of hygiene, has left many people wonder if anal $ex is safe.
But for those who don’t mind exploring it in a safe and pleasurable way, it is important to note that the friction during $ex can lead to tears. Haven’t we all learnt how the wetter the $ex is, the better it is. Besides, the skin around the anus is not just delicate, but it’s also a tighter door to enter in!
If you’re thinking whether you can use your saliva instead of a water or oil-based lubricant, wait till you read this!
What are some more facts about anal $ex?
1. It’s normal
Anal $ex can be as normal as vaginal $ex and oral $ex for some people. “It is normal to have anal $ex,” writes Dr Manokaran in response to the question, “Does it make me gay if I want to have anal $ex?”
At the same time, she says, “Anal $ex is not for everyone.” It’s as much a choice as oral $ex is. Some people like it, some people don’t.
2. Condom use:
As per Dr Manokaran, using a condom can reduce the risk of acquiring STIs during anal $ex. This is because it has a tendency to easily cause breaks in the skin.
3. Hetero$exuals enjoy it too
Unlike common perception, it’s not just for the home$exuals or bi$exuals. Dr Manokaran says it can be practiced by straight couples who love to explore their $exual desires using fingers, anal toys or even pegging.
All in all, whatever is the way you choose to explore, $exual pleasure, a word of advise: please ensure it’s safe and